Still. Before Iced Coffee

This book was written in the quiet moments before life demanded certainty.

Still Before Iced Coffee is a reflective memoir about identity, faith, love, and the becoming that happens before clarity arrives. Told with honesty, warmth, and subtle humor, it traces the moments when “fine” stopped being enough—and listening inward became necessary.

These pages explore what it means to choose yourself without having all the answers, to trust timing over pressure, and to honor the version of you that existed before the world expected explanations.

This is not a story about having it all figured out.
It’s about noticing what shifts when you finally stop rushing—and allow yourself to be still.