Tonya a sharrett shoemaker (13 Ergebnisse)

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - The New Attachment Figure No Parent Saw ComingI sat in my office watching a six-year-old boy I'll call Marcus. He had been adopted at age three from a neglectful and chaotic home. When something upset him - a transition, a limit, or even a small disappointment - he used to do what most young children with trauma histories do: he would melt down, push away, or freeze. His adoptive mother would move toward him, offering co-regulation the way we teach in therapeutic parenting.But on this day, something had changed. Marcus became dysregulated over a simple request to put away his toys. Instead of turning toward his mother or even toward me, he reached for the tablet sitting on the coffee table. Within seconds he was swiping, tapping, and completely checked out. His breathing slowed. His body relaxed. The meltdown never came. …

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - For more than thirty-three years I have sat with parents who were genuinely shocked by the children they were raising.They came into my office carrying the same stunned sentence: 'I had no idea.'Sometimes it was about hidden sexual behavior. Sometimes it was about substances, self-harm, online activity, or emotional alliances with peers that completely contradicted the child they saw at the dinner table. In adoptive families the shock often carried an extra layer of grief: 'After everything we've done for him. how could he still be living this double life ' In biological families the disbelief sounded slightly different but carried the same weight: 'We're a good family. We go to church. We eat dinner together. I thought I knew my own child.'The painful truth is this: they didn't know. Not because they were negligent or unloving, but because they had never been given permission to see what was actually happening in the second culture that has always existed right under their own roof.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - There is a moment that almost every caregiver of a traumatized child describes, usually in their second or third session of therapy, when the careful professional vocabulary finally cracks and the real sentence comes out. The sentence is some version of this: I don't understand what is happening, and I am terrified that I never will.This book exists to answer that sentence.The central argument of everything that follows is simple to state and radical in its implications: the reactive, oppositional, defiant, destructive behavior that characterizes children with complex attachment trauma is not pathology to be extinguished. It is not manipulation to be outmaneuvered. It is not willfulness to be broken. It is a brilliantly adaptive neurological strategy - one that was, at the time of its formation, genuinely lifesaving - and it has simply outlived the danger that created it. The child is no longer in the burning building. But the brain does not know that yet. The brain is still running fire drills, twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, in a house that has not been on fire for years.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - For decades, the child welfare and adoption fields have operated under a powerful, largely unexamined assumption: that placing children together and declaring them siblings will eventually create safety. This assumption has shaped policy, matching decisions, training curricula, and the daily lives of thousands of adoptive families.Dr. Franklin Edward Shoemaker and Tonya A. Sharrett-Shoemaker have done what few have been willing to do. With forensic precision, clinical courage, and decades of frontline experience, they have systematically dismantled the Sibling Illusion. They do not do so from theory alone, but from the accumulated evidence of what actually happens when children carrying complex trauma, attachment wounds, and sexual trauma histories are placed together without adequate assessment or protection.This book is uncomfortable. It should be. It forces us to confront the gap between our aspirations for 'family' and the neurobiological, developmental, and relational realities of the children we serve. It challenges comfortable narratives about permanency and asks hard questions about when protection must take precedence over togetherness.The Sibling Illusion is not an attack on sibling placement. It is a call for honesty, rigor, and a higher standard of care. Every professional who makes placement decisions, every agency that trains adoptive parents, and every clinician who works with adoptive families should read this book carefully - and then act on what they have learned.The children deserve nothing less. …

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - Imagine standing on a vast plain thousands of years ago. The air is thick with dust and ambition. Thousands of men labor under a burning sun, stacking brick upon brick, building higher and higher toward the heavens. Their goal is not worship. Their goal is defiance. They want to make a name for themselves. They want to remain together. They want to reach God on their own terms.Then something happens.In a moment, the work stops. Men who had spoken the same language moments before now stare at each other in confusion. Words that once connected them now divide them. The tower that was meant to unite them becomes a monument to their scattering. God has come down. He has confused their language. He has scattered them across the face of the earth.This is not just ancient history. This is the story of our time.Today, the tower is being rebuilt - not with bricks and mortar, but with ideology, policy, open borders, and the relentless promotion of multiculturalism that seeks to erase the very distinctions God established at Babel. The same spirit that drove humanity to defy God then is driving much of the modern world now.This book is a warning. It is also an invitation - to see what God did at Babel, to understand why He did it, and to recognize what happens when nations attempt to reverse His design.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - Patrick Wei's piece published at 6:14 a.m. Central Standard Time, fourteen minutes after its scheduled time - held briefly for a final legal review that found nothing that required suppression and a great deal that required publication. It ran without a subheading. The headline was: Inside the Experiment: How a Decade-Long Federal Research Program Recruited Vulnerable Youth Without Informed Consent.The program's public affairs office issued a statement by 9 a.m. The statement confirmed the program's existence and described it as a research initiative operating within all applicable regulatory frameworks. The statement did not address the phrase 'subject expendability factor.' It did not address the Blueprint's anchor position or Dr. Solís's analysis of its neurological consequences. It did not address the thirty-two individuals who had experienced anomalous behavioral effects in the weeks following the Awakening Event.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - You love your child. That is not in question. That has never been in question.You have proven it in a thousand ways - in the nights you didn't sleep, in the appointments you kept, in the arguments you had with yourself about whether you were doing enough. You have shown up. You have stayed. You have made sacrifices that no one outside your home will ever fully see or fully understand. Your love for this child is not the issue.And yet.Love does not close the Split-Second Window. Awareness alone does not close it. Good intentions - even the most sincere, most consistent, most parent-of-the-year-level intentions - do not close it. The window does not open because parents don't care. It opens because no one told them, specifically and clearly and in advance, where the edge was. No one named the moment before it became the moment. No one handed them the decision before the decision had to be made.That is why this book exists.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - This book is a work of fiction. Every character in it is invented, every institution fabricated, every experiment imagined. We want to say that clearly, because the questions this trilogy raises are not invented, and we believe you deserve to know the difference.The questions are real ones: What does it mean to consent to a neurological study Who gets to decide when the benefits of research outweigh its costs to the people being studied What happens when the systems designed to protect vulnerable populations fail them - not through carelessness or malice, but through the quiet, grinding logic of ambition These are questions being asked right now in bioethics journals, in congressional hearings, in the waiting rooms of hospitals where patients sign forms they don't fully understand. We didn't invent the questions. We built a world around them.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - By Dr. Franklin Edward Shoemaker, PhD, LMHC - The Attachment Code BreakerFor over two decades I have sat across from brilliant, successful people who kept asking the same question in different words: 'Why do I keep doing this 'They had insight. They were motivated. They had therapy. Yet the pattern remained.What they were missing was not more information - it was translation.They needed to see how the invisible world inside their minds and hearts was being perfectly, faithfully, and relentlessly translated into the visible world of their actions.That translation system is what I call The Inside-Out Code.This book is not another explanation of attachment theory. It is a decoder. It is a mirror. It is a set of surgical tools for anyone ready to stop managing symptoms and start rewriting the source code.You are about to learn how to read the language your nervous system has been speaking your entire life - and how to finally speak a new one.Welcome to the inside-out revolution.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - In The Unresolved Code, Dr. Shoemaker delivers a message that is both urgent and long overdue: the most important attachment work in any traumatized child's life begins not with the child - but with the caregiver's own unresolved trauma. Through eleven original meta-analyses and 33 years of frontline experience, he shows with striking clarity how the 'Unresolved Code' and the 'Wounded Healer Trap' quietly drive burnout, divorce, disrupted placements, and the creation of new trauma in homes and classrooms.What makes this book exceptional is that it does not stop at diagnosis. Dr. RAD gives readers a practical, evidence-based pathway forward through the 3-Stage Reboot - Snapped ? Shifted ? Solid - that has transformed countless families.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.