Julian omes (35 Ergebnisse)

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - Why does your child act this way One evening it is homework refusal. Another morning it is a meltdown before the shoes are on. Then it is arguing, shutting down after school, ignoring a simple request, fighting with a sibling, or falling apart over something that seems small. Behavior is loud. Cause is quiet. The visible behavior is the part you can see. But the same refusal, outburst, shutdown, or argument can come from very different bottlenecks: overload, shame, a missing skill, weak structure, poor timing, body strain, adult overcarrying, or a demand the child cannot yet carry under pressure. That difference matters. More pressure can make a regulation problem worse. More reassurance can leave a structure problem untouched. More consequences can add load to an already overloaded child. More explanation can give the child additional words without providing a usable next action. Reading Child Behavior is a parent-facing guide for the moment when you are doing a great deal, getting nowhere, and no longer know which lever to pull next. It helps you move beyond the fastest story-lazy, defiant, manipulative, dramatic, careless, disrespectful-and ask a more useful question: What is actually failing to carry the function here Inside, you will learn how to: - separate the visible symptom from the mechanism underneath it- recognize how the same behavior can arise from different bottlenecks- ask what the child believes is happening inside the scene- notice who the child becomes under correction, pressure, shame, or disappointment- identify which usable action is actually available right now- examine how timing, adult response, school demands, screens, siblings, and the physical setting affect the result- distinguish a built capacity from a result carried by fear, reward, adult effort, or one protected situation- choose a more honest marker before deciding whether your response is working>This is not a discipline system, a behavior-control manual, a diagnostic guide, or a clinical treatment program. It does not promise a quick fix or one explanation that fits every child. It gives parents something more reliable: a cleaner way to read the scene before choosing action. Stop guessing at the surface. Find the real bottleneck. Choose the next move that fits what is actually happening.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - Previously published as Parenting Ages 15-18 by Julian Omes.They can look almost adult-and still make a mistake that seems impossibly young.A seventeen-year-old can manage school, work, friends, money, transportation, and a dozen conversations you never see-and still miss a deadline, break an agreement, underestimate a consequence, or call for help after the plan has already fallen apart.The capability is real. So is the inconsistency.Almost Adult, Not All at Once is a developmental road map for parents of teenagers ages 15-18.At this age, more of life begins reaching the young person directly. Employers expect answers directly from them. Friends and partners have boundaries the parent cannot negotiate for them. Applications, deadlines, money, transportation, agreements, and consequences increasingly belong to situations the parent does not fully see or control.Four developmental lines now carry more demanding work: HOLD A GOAL - keep the commitment while changing a plan that no longer works.ACT WITH ANOTHER PERSON - coordinate with people whose choices, limits, and needs are independent of your own.SEE HOW THINGS FIT - keep multiple constraints, prerequisites, costs, and consequences usable at the same time.LEARN FROM WHAT HAPPENED - let uncertainty, mistakes, and feedback change the next move earlier.Through deadlines, work, money, trust, broken agreements, friendships, relationships, group conflict, and plans that have to be rebuilt, Julian Omes shows why adult-looking competence does not become adult-held responsibility everywhere at once.You will learn how to identify the part that still needs help, protect the boundaries that genuinely belong to you, and stop before useful support becomes a takeover.The goal is not to disappear from your teenager's life.It is to let care become more precise as more of life begins to belong to them.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - Your plan is already running.The chart is on the fridge. The consequence has been explained. The routine, script, boundary, reward, or agreement made sense when you started.But the same hard scene keeps coming back.When the Plan Stops Working is a practical guide for the moment when a parenting strategy is already in place, the result is not moving, and you no longer know whether to keep going, change course, or get outside help.Instead of adding another pile of advice, this book helps you debug one repeating scene through a disciplined process: - stabilize the first minute- choose the first test rather than the perfect theory- change one variable- select one marker that can prove you wrong- hold a stable observation window- identify what is carrying the result- test whether improvement survives with less adult support- decide whether to HOLD, SWITCH, or ESCALATEThe book applies this process to bedtime, morning chaos, homework resistance, chores, screens, sibling aggression, school refusal, teen shutdown, public meltdowns, transitions, and mealtime conflict.It also explains why a plan may work only on good days, with one parent, in one room, under one exact script, or while an adult carries most of the function.A calmer scene is useful. It is not yet proof that the child has built a stable and transferable capacity.This is not a universal discipline system, a diagnostic manual, or an emergency guide. It is a practical debugger for parents who need to stop changing tactics at random and make one cleaner decision from the evidence already in front of them.One hard scene. One change. One marker. One decision.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - The parenting answer that works today is not always the answer you should keep using tomorrow.Your child needs to finish the assignment tonight. But should you also protect the chance to build a skill A successful activity is going well. But does that mean it deserves more time, money, and specialization A rule solves the immediate problem. But what happens if the same solution quietly becomes permanent When the Right Answer Changes gives parents a practical way to make decisions when short-term success, development, and the longer future point in different directions.One decision. Three horizons: NOW - What has to work, be protected, or be completed in the near term BUILD - What is especially worth developing here, and what might the quick solution crowd out LATER - If you keep choosing this answer, what becomes easier, harder, narrower, or more open from here Through everyday decisions about learning, activities, screens, friendships, responsibility, first jobs, transitions, sleep, and ambition, Julian Omes shows how to choose the leading horizon, name the real tradeoff, and know when a decision deserves another look.The goal is not to predict your child's future. It is to stop one time horizon from quietly deciding for all three.A good answer can be right today without becoming a permanent answer.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - How much should you help your child-and when does help become too much Parents are often told to step in or step back. Real family life is rarely that simple. A child may need more help with one part of a situation and less with another. What worked last month may be wrong today. And independence is not always the right immediate goal.What Does My Child Need From Me Now gives parents a practical way to decide what their part should be in one real situation.The book uses four adult roles: Carry - take responsibility for the part the child cannot safely or realistically carry now.Share - hold the structure while the child carries a defined part.Support - let the child lead while you provide limited help.Transfer - leave the part with the child in ordinary conditions while remaining available if something changes.Through everyday situations involving school, routines, responsibility, friendships, privacy, mistakes, safety, and growing independence, Julian Omes shows how to choose a role without turning one difficult scene into a judgment about the whole child.The aim is not always to help less. It is to give the kind of help this situation actually requires-and know when the answer needs to change.…

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - You tried the advice. You stayed calm, used the script, changed the consequence, softened your tone, validated the feeling, held the boundary, or backed off. It still did not work. The problem may not be that the advice was bad-or that your child is impossible. Good parenting advice has no fixed power. What it can do depends on timing, readiness, body state, developmental load, available support, and whether the result can transfer beyond the protected scene. A strategy that helps one child may overload another. A consequence may teach responsibility when enough structure already exists-or produce panic and shame when it does not. Validation may help a child return to the conversation-or become one more demand when regulation has already collapsed. More consistency may build a capacity, or it may rehearse the same mismatch more reliably. Why the Same Parenting Advice Fails explains what sensible advice quietly assumes your child can already do. Inside, you will learn how to: - distinguish developmental timing from rigid age deadlines- understand sensitive periods without panic or exaggeration- separate readiness from visible understanding- see how sleep, stress, arousal, shame, and sensory load change access to a skill- recognize when adult support is carrying the result- distinguish real development from pressure-driven or context-bound performance- understand why the same advice changes meaning across ages 0-18- identify when progress is local and when it truly transfers>This is not another universal parenting method, discipline system, diagnostic guide, or list of scripts. It does not argue that gentle parenting, firm parenting, consequences, validation, or structure are inherently right or wrong. It asks the more useful question: What did this advice assume was already built-and were those conditions actually present Stop collecting advice as if every child, age, state, and situation were interchangeable. Understand what good advice can do here, now, with this child. …