Isbn: 9798246480229 - the friendship illusion: why women's friendships aren't adding up (3 Ergebnisse)

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

PAP. Zustand: New. New Book. Shipped from UK. Established seller since 2000.

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - Have you ever driven home from a pleasant coffee date with a friend, only to feel a lingering sense of exhaustion you can't quite name You replay the conversation, wondering where you fell short, and resolve to simply 'try harder' next time. You assume the emotional cost is a personal failure. But what if you aren't failing at friendship What if you are simply investing your energy in the wrong kind of connection In The Friendship Illusion, Dr. Audrey Lindhe reveals a life-changing truth: many modern friendships feel draining because we are drawn to novelty, or to the people who seem to need us the most, rather than the people who offer us security. We pour scarce energy into tenuous, misaligned dynamics, hoping to fix them, instead of feeding the safe, secure connections that actually allow us to flourish.Rooted in Adult Attachment Theory, this eye-opening guide shows that a secure attachment style isn't just for lucky people with perfect childhoods or easy temperaments-it is a state of being you can develop right now. Our relationships profoundly impact our overall life outlook. By making a conscious commitment to seek secure attachments before anything else, and reducing your exposure to dynamics that feel tenuous, you can feel profoundly safer in the world.This book provides a practical shorthand for the modern relational landscape, giving you the tools to reassess what you expect and want from your friendships. Inside, you will learn how to accurately read your relationships and discover: - The Tenancy Trap: Why you might be paying 'emotional rent' just to keep a lease active in a one-sided, insecure friendship.- The Four Pillars of Effort: How to audit your friendships to see who is actually carrying the invisible labor of Initiation, Curiosity, Emotional Regulation, and Flexibility.- The Capacity Gap: The real reason you are hurt when a friend doesn't text, yet secretly relieved when someone cancels plans so you can retreat to safety.- The Ecosystem of Groups: Why you unconsciously over-function in group settings to manufacture stability, adopting roles like the Vibe Manager, the Stabilizer, or the Meaning-Maker.- Legacy vs. Situational Bonds: How to recognize when a friendship is held together only by past memories, rather than the mutual, secure growth you need today.This is not a book about becoming less generous or more guarded; it is about shifting your attention toward safety. The Friendship Illusion is an invitation to stop substituting exhausting labor for genuine, secure connection.You don't need to try harder. You just need to choose security. Because once the illusion is visible, a safe and flourishing reality becomes possible.…