ISBN: 9798198519923 - no one tells you this: what happens to men after the world stops making sense, and how to find your way back (1 Ergebnisse)

Taschenbuch. Zustand: Neu. Neuware - You did everything you were supposed to do.Good job. Good apartment. Busy enough. And somewhere around 30, you realized you had almost no one to call. Not at 11pm. Not about the thing that was actually wrong.This is not a personal failure. It is a pattern - and it is far more common than most men realize.NO ONE TELLS YOU THIS is a book about what actually happens to men in their twenties, thirties, and forties: the quiet collapse of friendships, the emptiness that follows achievement, the identity questions that surface when the checklist runs out, and the relationships that suffer when no one taught you how to show up in them.Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, sociology, and decades of research on what makes a life feel worth living, Kala Montena explains the structural forces - not personal flaws - that leave so many men feeling disconnected, directionless, and alone in a life that looks fine from the outside.This book covers: - Why making real friends after 25 is structurally harder than anyone told you- Why success feels empty - and what that feeling is actually telling you- Why you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships- What intimacy actually requires, and why no one showed you- How to figure out what you actually want - not what you were told to want- What a good life looks like for a man, according to 80 years of research- How to actually change - and what it takesThis is not a self-help book. There are no morning routines. No five steps. No easy answers.It is an explanation. And for many men, an explanation is exactly what has been missing.For men who did everything right and still feel like something is missing.…