In the Beginning let there be: Man and Woman

My name is Jonathan and I am from Maryland in the good old US of A.'

The only reason I decided to write this book is because every time I told my story to guys, they got into this 'trans'.

It was like they had no clue what really happens when American guys that meet foreign women, marry them, then decide to have children. These things that I'm going to tell you are very informative, and please read carefully. Please tell other people about what happened to me.

I'll start out by telling you a little bit about myself, then from my childhood, and then I'll jump write up to where it all started so I don't bore the crap out of you.

My family's history goes back to the Revolutionary War. We even have a state park named after our family. It's called the "Jenny Wiley state Park in Kentucky". If you want to visit that site, I think you'll be amazed how much she went through, and here I am a descendent of her.

I was a normal kid, with a normal atmosphere growing up.

My parents both worked. We were a middle class average family. I graduated from high school, and put myself in college. After that I went to work at Bethlehem Steel Corporation. Then I started a business. Divorced and became a single parent, so where I'll start the story is how it all began.

I was a regular guy starting out, you know, a player with only good intentions to please and to get pleased with the right person, a single guy who had single guy's intentions and aspirations. I had a dream to get happily married, to have children and to live the American dream with a beautiful, loving, trust worthy woman.

I was very picky about who I dated and who I went out with.

I thank GOD that when I was younger we never had an AIDS epidemic. Well, I heard of it, but the only thing I heard was that it came from some monkey and that the people were spreading it around Europe and, at that time, some bisexual male airline steward was caught spreading AIDS around the US, from city to city. I found out later that some of that was true and some of that wasn't. AIDS, as we know, is a header sexual virus and you can contract it many ways.

I guess I was lucky and never met anyone who contracted the virus.

My Single Days

I was sharing an apartment with a guy that I worked with, and we would go out after work and pick up women, and get phone numbers, call them two days later so not to be desperate looking. I went out with a friend to a neighborhood watering hole on a warm summer night and there was a very big baseball game on the big screen TV in the restaurant. Everyone was screaming and yelling for our home town team and in the midst of all that I met a woman. I thought she was the woman of my dreams. I thought I finally met a beautiful woman here in my state and close to home. We fell in love and we had a very big wedding and so on. We bought a house and had a wonderful child; you know the dog, pets, and a kitchen sink too. Well that marriage lasted 11 years and she decided to take off with my child 2 years of age and then I had to buy her out from the business, and buy her out from my home, and it cost me a fortune. You know the old expression 'it's cheaper to keep her'. Well, that's true, but I think both man and woman need piece and happiness as well. We did go to marriage counseling and still that didn't work. Believe me, my biggest fear was to get a divorce. It was hell for me and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. No one wins that argument, but the attorneys and the state, and you always have to think about the children where and how they are going to grow up and who is going to be around them and so on. And that's a whole book itself.

So here I am single again. Well, I stayed single for a very long time, about 13 years. After that, thus, not trusting another American woman for a very long time, I only heard horror stories from the guys I worked with at Bethlehem Steel about their bad experiences with their marriages and the guys getting the worst end of the deal. Stories about marriage like a tornado. When they leave, it takes the house and the car with them and a whole lot more. Then President Bill Clinton got caught running around with Monica with the cigar and the whole red dress thing. It seemed like every story I heard was not good about the American women and dating girls here in the US seemed like a night mare. It seemed to me like every girl I met had a litter of kids, three or more. Now, don't get me wrong, I personally raised other guy's children and liked it because they filled this void with me not having my own around me every day. The state said that the mother should get my child and I was to pay child support for the next 20 years and that's that. I personally think that it should be 50 / 50 that each parent should have the children 50% of the time and split the cost for everything. Now, getting back to the women I met. Well, I think I met them all. And some things that happened, that's a whole another department! I'll tell you about it in the next book. What a nightmare that was.

Let there be: Young Foreign hottie

Dating women here in the US was hard and it was very hard to even find someone without kids. I thought I would never find a normal girl to live my life with. I was so scared to start over again with someone else and then end up risking and losing everything again. All the guys who worked for me and friends said 'patients is a virtue' and not to look for her, she'll come to you when you don't expect it. Well, I had contractors working at my house and one of the guys asked me if I would do him a favor. He said he had a niece coming over from this country called Belarus, and he asked me to work her for the summer so she could earn some money to go to college back over there. This guy, the helper of the contractor who was working on my house had changed my life, but it wasn't him who changed it. It was me. I said yes, I would help by giving her a job for the summer.

The only thing I had at that time for her was a cleanup around the house because of the construction that was going on. After about three or four weeks she started to come on to me in a big way and I was very uncomfortable with that. She was blonde, young, beautiful and a little foreign hottie with a kick ass body but old enough and nice at the time, and before you know it, her and I took a trip to Lauderdale beach. Then the next thing you know, she is asking me to marry her on the beach. For the life of me, I didn't know what to say, so I hesitated. I mean come on; I'm 42 years old with this young foreign sexy blonde with this great body on the beach with an accent, Damm! So I waited until we got back to my house a week later in Maryland and I wanted to sleep on it before I made the decision. I wished I would have slept on it two more weeks. Man, did I learn my lesson the hard way. Let me tell you, it was a nightmare. First of all, no one ever gave me any pointers on this and I didn't know where to go look for advice. That's another reason why I wrote this HANDBOOK! Guys, I know it's hard but, you got to think with the head that is on your shoulders first and give it a little time before you make any big commitments. First of all, there was a big age difference, she was 21 and I was 42. Guys, then you have to think about her background, was she a convicted felon or some kind of Russian spy or some...