When Limits Feel Like Betrayal: A Workbook on Boundaries, Resentment, and Taking Good Care of Yourself (Craft Your Wellness) - Softcover

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Most boundaries workbooks focus on what to do. This one focuses on why it is so hard. The guilt, the compulsive yes, the sense that wanting something for yourself requires justification: these are not character flaws. They are learned patterns with identifiable origins, and they can be examined and changed.

When Limits Feel Like Betrayal is a structured, clinically grounded workbook for adults who struggle to set boundaries, chronically over-give, and experience intense guilt when they try to say no. It does not offer scripts or techniques as a starting point. It offers something more foundational: an honest examination of where the people-pleasing pattern came from, what it has cost, and what it would mean to make a genuine choice about it.

Readers work through the roots of people-pleasing behavior, identify what chronic over-accommodation has cost them, and build the practice of setting and holding limits without requiring themselves to feel terrible about it first. Each chapter includes somatic exercises, structured reflection, behavioral tracking, and integration prompts.

This workbook is for you if:

• The word no produces a physical response before it produces a thought


• You have said yes to things you did not want to do and then resented both the ask and yourself for agreeing


• You have tried to set limits and found the guilt so immediate and overwhelming that you reversed course


• You have wondered whether there is something wrong with you for finding this so hard when it seems easy for everyone else

This workbook addresses:

• People-pleasing and chronic over-giving


• Codependency and difficulty saying no


• Fawn trauma response and its origins


• Guilt and shame around limits and boundaries


• Building and holding limits without self-punishment

Structured for independent use, alongside therapy, or for clinical recommendation. Part of the Craft Your Wellness series, clinically grounded workbooks for doing real work on real life issues.

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