SEEN, NOT MANAGED: El Roi, Masculinity & Femininity Without Control - Softcover

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What if homes healed by policy, not performance?
In SEEN, NOT MANAGED, George Barnes reframes the modern fight over “masculinity” and “femininity” through the name Hagar gave God—El Roi, the One who sees. Sight before sorting. Presence before performance.

Written in conversation mode and anchored to Ethiopic/LXX Scripture, this book replaces hot takes with house tools you can use tonight: the El Roi Test (Name → Ask → Mirror → Offer choice), Boundaries without Biography (≤15 words), WAIT-72 for heat decisions, Phones Sleep in Baskets (9:00 p.m.), the Doorway Blessing (Numbers 6 short form), Two Sentences + Timestamp (apology as architecture), $5 Seed / $5 Repair (money that tells the truth), Grief with Edges (name/date/ritual), and Raising the Seen (kids who govern, not perform).

This is not a costume catalog. It’s a climate plan for love. Small, timed, spoken, kept.
If you’re tired of control masquerading as strength and of performance pretending to be warmth, open this book at the doorframe. Speak the blessing. Decide in daylight. Keep one promise by noon. Then read your receipts on Friday—facts disciple feelings. Seen first. Sorted later.

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