The Woman After: Love, Connection and Intimacy on Your Own Terms - Softcover

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You have done the hard work. You know who you are now.

After the end of a long marriage, the world has one piece of advice: get back out there. Download the app. Meet someone. Move on.

But what if that is not the question you are asking?

What if the real question — the one nobody seems to be asking you properly — is simply: what do you actually want?

The Woman After begins exactly there. Not with dating tips, not with instructions for finding a man. With the question that comes before all of that — the one that arrives when the grief has lifted and the dust has settled and you are standing in the middle of your own life, looking at the years ahead and realising you have never been asked to choose them entirely for yourself.

Drawing on research, real conversations, and the stories of six composite women at every point on the spectrum — from the woman who builds a joyful life entirely alone, to the woman who falls unexpectedly in love and is terrified by it — this book explores the full range of what women over fifty actually want. Not what they are supposed to want. What they genuinely want.

Inside you will find:

• The Connection Inventory — a framework for understanding what you actually need from relationships
• The honest guide to the new dating landscape — apps, attachment patterns, and red flags that matter at this age
• A frank chapter on desire and intimacy after menopause — because this is real and nobody talks about it honestly
• Research on Living Apart Together (LAT) — the relationship form that may suit you better than you think
• The Deliberate Singular Life — how to build something genuinely full if partnership is not the answer
• A chapter on the terror of trusting again — and how women who have built something real have navigated it

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