Sorry! The English and Their Manners - Softcover

The erudite and witty Henry Hitchings is the perfect guide through the minefield of social conventions we call manners * Mail on Sunday * Scholarly without being heavy, and rich with acute anecdotes and diversions into social history . . . Pacy and enthusiastic, Hitchings's book entertains and enlightens * Daily Telegraph * He's terrific. He's struck the perfect balance between hard academic insight and sheer readability - and achieves both * Evening Standard * What better book for a foreign beach than an exploration of our enduring stereotypes. This history of faux pas and foibles is ideal for broadcasting entertaining 'Did-you-knows?' * Mail on Sunday * Very well-mannered and authoritative survey of British behaviour * Sunday Telegraph * Full of diverting nuggets and anecdotes * Sunday Times * An elegant and erudite book . . . Hitchings has an encyclopaedic mind, but like the well-mannered Englishman he is, wears his learning lightly * Independent * 'Diverting new book' * Lady * 'Endlessly entertaining' * Literary Review * 'Hitching's shares provocative opinions . . . he exhibits an appetite for confounding myths about social mores' * Metro * 'Illuminating and entertaining' * Sunday Telegraph * 'A scholarly study of English manners' * Country Life * 'Witty and sharp . . . full of diverting nuggets and anecdotes . . . elegantly written' * Sunday Times * 'Understated elegance . . . it is itself an impeccably well-mannered and deeply English product' * The Spectator * 'Highly entertaining and absorbing book' * Daily Telegraph * 'Manners is a fascinating subject, and Hitchings handles it with all his customary wit, knowledge and elegance' * Mail on Sunday * 'Hitchings has made a bold, entertaining and often imaginative, assault on a fundamentally impossible subject' * Observer * '[Hitchings] is a lovely writer, full of interesting ideas and neat turns of phrase' * Daily Mail * 'Amusing and enlightening . . . he is particularly insightful in depicting the evolutionary shift manners have taken since they were first codified on paper in the Middle Ages' * Financial Times * 'An excellent history, just don't read it at the dinner table . . . this insightful book will give you pause the next time you wipe your nose on the duvet or - social death! - top up your host's glass at a New Year's Eve party' * The Times * 'A writer of apparently limitless learning and intelligence, who writes works of scholarship masquerading as popular narrative non-fiction . . . the man is something else' * Guardian *

Most of us know a bit about what passes for good manners - holding doors open, sending thank-you notes, no elbows on the table. We certainly know bad manners when we see them. But where has this patchwork of beliefs and behaviours come from? How did manners develop? How do they change? And why do they matter so much to us? In examining our manners, Henry Hitchings delves into the English character and investigates our notions of Englishness. Sorry! presents an amusing, illuminating and quirky audit of English manners. From basic table manners to appropriate sexual conduct, via hospitality, chivalry, faux pas and online etiquette, Hitchings traces the history of our country's customs and courtesies. Putting under the microscope some of our most astute observers of humanity, including Jane Austen and Samuel Pepys, he uses their lives and writings to pry open the often downright peculiar secrets of the English character. Hitchings' blend of history, anthropology and personal journey helps us understand our bizarre and contested cultural baggage - and ourselves.