Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-to-Be - Softcover

Kali, Liam

 
9781632173980: Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-to-Be
Softcover
ISBN 10: 1632173980 ISBN 13: 9781632173980
Verlag: Sasquatch Books, 2022

Inhaltsangabe

“[A] a well-researched, deeply comprehensive (and readable!) guide to building a queer family in a way that works for you.” 
—Emily Oster, author of Expecting Better

This groundbreaking, up-to-date fertility guide from trusted queer and trans midwife Kristin Liam Kali is perfect for every queer family seeking pregnancy. It’s also the first evidence-based, transgender inclusive, and body-positive fertility resource for our community. Here, queer prospective parents will find sound advice about every step of the baby-making process:
·      Creating a timeline
·      Fertile health for every body
·      Preconception tests
·      Identifying ovulation
·      Sperm donors, egg donors, gamete banks, and surrogacy
·      Methods of insemination including IUI, IVF, and reciprocal IVF
·      Miscarriage and infertility
·      Navigating early pregnancy and preparing for infant feeding, including lactation induction for trans women and other nongestational parents
 
This book is for all LGBTQ+ readers interested in creating family through pregnancy: anyone who identifies as queer, lesbians, gay men, bisexual people, trans and nonbinary people, couples, single parents by choice, poly families, and coparents. It’s an antidote to a culture and medical system that all too often centers heterosexual couples experiencing infertility while overlooking our unique needs.
 
Also contains sidebars with guidance for reproductive healthcare professionals.

“This life-changing book is equal parts practical handbook and sensitively written resource. Highly recommended!”
—Toni Weschler, MPH, author of Taking Charge of Your Fertility

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Über die Autorin bzw. den Autor

LIAM KALI, Licensed Midwife, (they/them) is the owner of MAIA Midwifery & Fertility Services, PLLC. They have supported thousands of LGBTQ+ parents through fertility and preconception care, in-home insemination, prenatal care, childbirth education, delivery in homes and birth centers, postpartum care, lactation management and parenting groups. As a public speaker, educator and consultant, they have trained hundreds of midwives and childbirth professionals to serve the queer and trans community with humility, respect and the widespread use of gender inclusive language.

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HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
 
So, you want to make a baby.  Or at least you’re thinking about it.  You’ve come to the right place!  In this book, you will find everything you need to know about fertility and queer conception that was left out of your high school biology curriculum, and all the things your primary care doctor didn’t know to tell you, that your fertility doctor overlooked, and that would have taken you months to glean off the internet, wading through cis/het centered information.  Here, you’ll find evidence-based information that actually applies to queer people building families via pregnancy.  You might pick up this book at any point in the conception process, but no matter what, this book has something for you. 
 
If you are doing some exploratory research in hopes of someday building a family, please be sure to take a look at Chapter 1: Making Decisions & Creating a Timeline.  This chapter will guide you in thinking about your options as well as when to get started, including the ideal time to cryopreserve your gametes if you know you want to make a baby someday, but you’re not ready now.
 
If you are ready to begin the process of seeking pregnancy, start with Chapters 1-3, which provide an overview of the options, help with initial decision-making, and assist in preparing for conception and pregnancy.  This is foundational and will support you as you dive into the specifics covered in Chapters 4-6, including donor selection, surrogacy and insemination.  For those conceiving via insemination, special attention is given to helping you feel confident about when you are ovulating so you can get the timing right, which is covered in chapter 6.  If you plan to start inseminating within the next 3-6 months, don’t wait to review this chapter.  If you are considering IVF or reciprocal IVF, chapter 1 addresses success rates and costs, while chapter 8 will walk you through what to expect during treatment.
 
If you are already in the process of inseminating when you pick up this book, be sure to take a look at the success rates and recommended timelines in the second half of Chapter 1.  This will provide guidance for deciding how long to try and when to seek additional support if needed.  It will also put your efforts to conceive into perspective with your age, assisting you in big picture thinking to support you in moving to the next level of care at the appropriate time, before your fertile window runs out.  You might then skip to the list of checkpoints at the beginning of Chapter 7: Troubleshooting & Complicated Conceptions.  You can use this list to guide where in the book you turn to next.  If you find there is information on the checklist you have not yet considered, back up to the recommended chapter provided on the checklist.
 
If you are about to dive in to the IVF process, start with Chapter 8: In-Vitro Fertilization & Embryo Transfer.  This chapter is designed to demystify the IVF process and provide anticipatory guidance to help you stay grounded as you go through it.  Be sure to also flip back to Chapter 2: Fertile Health for Every Body to make sure you are doing what you can to support your gametes and/or prepare your body for pregnancy.
 
If you have been diagnosed with PCOS, fibroids or endometriosis, Chapter 7: Troubleshooting & Complicated Conceptions is for you.  A detailed exploration of the evidence for supporting these conditions is included here.  This chapter, as well as the rest of the book, is written from a body-positive, anti-fat-shaming perspective.  If you’ve simply been told you need to lose weight to conceive, you will find a more nuanced approach here.
 
If you are newly pregnant or your partner or surrogate is pregnant, turn directly to Chapter 11: Early Pregnancy & Lactation Induction.  While this book is primarily focused on fertility and achieving pregnancy, this chapter is included for guidance in the early weeks after conception.  Additionally, it contains information that is hard to find elsewhere, including protocols for inducing lactation, which ideally start 3-6 months before your babe arrives.  Guidance is provided for choosing a care provider, caring for your mental health, getting the support you need, and queering pregnancy.  Considerations for bonding and attachment, feeding after chest masculinization surgery, and ensuring that your baby gets a good latch are included as well.
 
If you are a midwife or other health care provider who cares for conceiving queer and trans families, you will glean a great deal of information by witnessing the transmission of information provided for families in this book.  There are notes for you at the end of each chapter to guide you in your practice.  Consider this the preceptorship you never had. 
 

 
A NOTE FROM THE MIDWIFE
 
Dear Reader,
 
By way of introduction, I am a white, queer, nonbinary empty nester parent of 4 grown children, one of whom I gave birth to in a freestanding birth center in central Missouri in 1995.  Not only did my own experience of pregnancy and birth under the care of midwives spark my desire to enter the midwifery profession, something my midwife said to me during pregnancy struck a chord that has influenced everything about the way I practice.  She said to me, “We were never meant to do this alone.”  This sentiment motivated me to reach out and create community during a time that otherwise could have been extremely isolating for me as a new parent.  It has also underscored the work I do with the families in my care.
 
Once I decided to heed the call of becoming a midwife, I knew that creating space for new parents to connect with one another would be a core aspect of my practice.  When I realized my calling was to serve queer and trans families, specifically, my drive to build community among the clients I serve became integral for providing affirmation and cultivating resiliency during a time that most of us experience rampant cis/heterosexism, if not outright transphobia and homophobia, in receiving health care and within the culture at large.
 
My practice is therefore unique.  I don’t catch babies much any more.  Instead, I focus my energy and attention on filling the gaps in care that exist for my community.  This means providing queer and trans focused preconception care to local families as well as to families at a distance via telemedicine, and running an online program of education and support for queer and trans families throughout conception, pregnancy, and the early weeks of parenthood. 
 
Although my clinical practice may be focused on making babies, at its core, my midwifery practice is about making parents.  In creating spaces and facilitating conversations where new parents feel safe enough to be vulnerable, people experience feeling deeply held by their community.  The stories I have witnessed over the course of my role as an educator, protector and guide for new families are not covered in textbooks and are never witnessed by providers in models of care that are purely focused on clinical concerns and end within days after birth. Although I can share a great deal of knowledge, what truly informs my practice is the past 26 years I have spent listening.  My work as a midwife is to utilize clinical knowledge and procedural skills alongside psychosocial aspects of care including counseling, education and community building.  From my perspective, it takes all of these to truly...

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Verlag
Sasquatch Books
Erscheinungsdatum
2022
Sprache
Englisch
ISBN 10 
1632173980
ISBN 13 
9781632173980
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Taschenbuch
Anzahl der Seiten
320
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