Dancing with Life: Buddhist Insights for Finding Meaning and Joy in the Face of Suffering - Hardcover

Moffitt, Phillip

 
9781594863530: Dancing with Life: Buddhist Insights for Finding Meaning and Joy in the Face of Suffering

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A former editor-in-chief of Esquire and Buddhist instructor counsels readers on the twelve insights that underlie the Buddha's core teachings, in a spiritual guide that addresses such topics as suffering, the Buddha's Four Noble Truths, and inner peace. 30,000 first printing.

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Phillip Moffitt walked away from his highly successful post as chief executive and editor-in-chief of Esquire magazine in 1987 to live the inner life. Founder and president of the Life Balance Institute, a nonprofit organization devoted to the study and practice of spiritual values in daily life, Moffitt teaches vipassana meditation at retreat centers around the country and holds a weekly meditation class in Marin County, California. He is an award-winning essayist and is a regular contributor to Yoga Journal. He lives in the San Francisco Bay area.

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CHAPTER 1

DANCING LESSONS: HOW TO USE THIS BOOK

The Twelve Insights of the Four Noble Truths are instructions for the practice of self-liberation. They will not protect you from experiencing dukkha--loss and difficulty are an unavoidable reality in our everyday human existence. Even the Buddha experienced pain and loss during his life, such as back pain and grief at the deaths of close friends. However, these Twelve Insights will enable you to relate to your suffering in such a way that it does not define you. It is possible to fully experience the precious and beautiful moments in life as they occur, yet not be desperate for them. Likewise, you can fully experience the difficult in life without being filled with stress and anguish. These Twelve Insights teach you to dance with both the joy and the pain, finding peace in a balanced mind and calm spirit. As the most specific, practical life instructions I have ever encountered, they serve as an invaluable tool for anyone who seeks a life filled with meaning and well-being.

When the Buddha taught the Twelve Insights of the Four Noble Truths, he first presented the problem: There is dukkha, which is a result of how the untrained mind reacts to ever-changing conditions (the First Noble Truth). Then he presented the cause of the problem: Your mind falls into clinging and grasping because of wanting (the Second Noble Truth). Next he presented the solution: A different result is possible, which is the cessation of suffering (the Third Noble Truth). And finally he presented the cause of this radically different result: The Eightfold Path (the Fourth Noble Truth). Thus, the Buddha, like a doctor, tells the patient what the illness is, diagnoses the cause, tells the patient the cure for the condition, and recommends the medicine needed to bring about the cure.

There are three insights associated with each Noble Truth, and they follow a similar pattern: first reflecting, then directly experiencing, and finally knowing. The Buddha taught that in order to completely understand a Noble Truth, you first reflect on it as a conceptual description of a general truth in life. Hence, to gain the First Insight of each Noble Truth, you critically examine it in your mind to see if it makes intellectual and common sense. When you intellectually know that a given Noble Truth is at least logical and theoretically possible, then the Buddha directs you to the second insight of each Truth. This insight requires you to consciously seek to realize the Truth. You immerse yourself in the truth and therefore experience its validity for you personally. Practicing the Second Insight for each Truth means seeking direct experience of it in your own life through mindful, compassionate awareness. (In Chapter 2, I offer detailed instructions for how to practice each insight using mindfulness meditation.) It is tempting in meditation practice to skip this step in relation to the first two Noble Truths, to jump into a detached, witnessing state about suffering and its cause without knowing the "felt experience" of the Truth. But if you do, you can easily get stuck in your practice. I have witnessed this many times, even in students with years of experience. Their lives don't change and they become disappointed in themselves, but have no understanding as to why they are getting stuck.

The Second Insight of each Truth is not theoretical; you are to experience it in your body, to know both the "wow" and the "ouch" of it. This direct experience is what makes the Buddha's teaching a living wisdom, rather than a philosophy or ontology. The Buddha's offering is not a theory about being, but the actual felt experience of being in your life. That is its liberating power.

Finally, having carefully thought about the Noble Truth and known the embodied experience of it, you are ready for the Third Insight--knowing. Ajahn Sumedho refers to this insight as the call to "know that you know."1 It involves mindfully integrating what you've just learned and felt into your daily life. People often leave this step out of their spiritual (and psychological) work, as well. And yet, without it, you are likely to lose your grasp on the Truth and return rapidly to your old habits. Soon you'll be living the way you've always been living, in spite of your recent revelations. In my view, knowing is a vital step in each Noble Truth because without it, nothing is really accomplished.

Let's take the First Noble Truth as an example of how these three insights work. First, you examine what the Buddha means by the teaching, "There is dukkha." Does this statement ring true in your life? Is there suffering in the lives of those around you? Second, you open yourself to the experience of suffering. You penetrate it by seeing, tasting, and touching it in a heartfelt manner. Rather than being an uninvolved witness, you seek to directly experience suffering within the body and the mind by staying present with it. You feel the pain, the "ouch" of it, in effect. Third, you realize that you now know for yourself the implications of the Truth, in this case that "there is dukkha." You start to live your life from this known truth, letting go of judgment, of the belief that when you suffer, you somehow fail. Instead, you're willing to meet your suffering and view it as an opportunity for personal growth. You mindfully respond to rather than emotionally react to it.

Naturally, as with any practice, there are layers of understanding and ability. You dig deeper and become more skillful over time. You do not gain each insight separately and serially, but through a spiraling process of ever-deepening self-knowledge. With every step, you achieve greater peace and understanding.

A FRESH PERSPECTIVE ON AN ANCIENT WISDOM

Dancing with Life is a teaching about moving from suffering to joy in your life. This teaching involves your learning each of the three practice insights for each of the Four Noble Truths. These insights, when directly realized, bring you to the experience of wholeness and unity in your life.

The practices for each of the Noble Truths are treated like a self-contained book. Therefore, you can read Dancing with Life as four books, each complete in itself. Each "book" contains an overview and four chapters. In the overview for each book, I provide an interpretation of that particular Truth. The overview is followed by three chapters that explore the three insights related to that Truth: The First Insight for each Truth is to be understood by reflecting on the Truth; the Second Insight is to be practiced by directly experiencing the Truth; and the Third Insight is gained by knowing that you know the Truth. Finally, a summary chapter on the Truth helps you apply these insights in everyday life. Preceding Book One are instructions on mindfulness practices that you will need to investigate the Twelve Insights. Even if you are a longtime meditator, I recommend that you not skip over these instructions because they contain certain key concepts that you may not have learned elsewhere. (See Appendix 1 for a complete list of the Twelve Insights.)

I ask that you be sensitive to the fact that although there are Twelve Insights, the Buddha's teaching is in no way a "twelve-step program," through which you must progress one by one. On the contrary, the insights are fluid and interrelated. It is like being a porpoise in the ocean that suddenly gains consciousness and wonders, "What is the nature of this water that I swim in, from which I am not separate?" You may skip some chapters and come back to them later, or return to certain insights over and over again. You may find that what is most relevant to you are the practices in the book on the First Noble Truth, the Truth of Suffering, for this is where you are in your life. Or you may find that the practices in Book Two around the causes of...

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