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The Possibility Coaches' Guide to

Balboa Press

Chapter One

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"Release the idea today of having a `perfect' reputation!"

Worrying about how the world sees you adds stress and anxiety to your life. Focusing on perfection blocks you from being who you are at your core. Adopt this mantra today: `What you think of me is none of my business!' Say it over and over, day in and day out! Believe this statement and you free yourself from the need to prove your worthiness. Know that the only opinion regarding you that counts is your own.

Eliminate the need to have a perfect reputation today.

2 Tip of the Day

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"Be open to being less controlling today!"

Select one person, situation or outcome in your life that you are attempting to manipulate and let them or it go. Commit to this for 24 hours. Just one day! Tomorrow see if you awaken less drained, more energized, relaxed and even at peace.

Let go of being controlling today and begin the process of trusting that all is well in your world.

3 Tip of the Day

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"To have a winning life today you must first stop whining!"

Being a victim prevents you from moving forward and living a happy, fulfilled life. When you blame and complain you give your power away to people, events and circumstances. That is called self-disempowerment. Reverse the process and become empowered.

Take responsibility today and begin the process of winning in the game of life.

4 Tip of the Day

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"Believe in others today even if they do not believe in themselves!"

At one time in your life you may have had someone who believed in you even when you may have been `down and out.' Can you recall how uplifting it was to have a cheering squad move you forward? Inspire someone today to take one action step in their life that creates positive change. Stand by them. Hold their hand if you have to. Be a coach or guide for them so they can begin to awaken to their greatness.

Empower someone by believing in them today.

5 Tip of the Day

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"Stop trying to `fix' and `save' people today!"

Despite what you may think, these are exhausting processes that will always be less than satisfying. In fact, they are more likely to create frustration and stress in your life. We are all on a life journey that has some significant purpose. Within each purpose is the Lesson to be received. `Fixing' and `saving' is about the need to control. This interferes with the Life learning process of another person. It's like taking an exam for someone else: in the end no one gains the wisdom required to be truly happy.

Eliminate the need to fix and save from your life today. 6 Tip of the Day

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"Choose wisely what you give to the world today!"

The world is like a gigantic mirror. It reflects back to you exactly what you give. Giving is not only material things. Your thoughts, words, emotions and actions are all forms of `giving.' They will determine the results you receive in your life. What you give out dynamically you will attract magnetically.

Focus on giving what you want to receive today.

7 Tip of the Day

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"Take money out of the equation that is your life situation today!"

When money is the main reason for living, your power is given away. Money and the abundance or lack of it, is an end result of an exchange of energy through service. Put service first and you live authentically at the level of cause. Living at the `level of cause' means you are empowered to create the reality that you want for your life! Ironically, then, more money will appear in your life.

In the equation of your life situation today, put service first and watch money appear.

8 Tip of the Day

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"The people in your life today are part of your life's classroom curriculum!"

Life never gives you what you cannot handle and that includes people. People show up in your life for a reason, never by chance. They all have a purpose that can, with your permission, assist you to grow. The relationships you share with them are part of the journey to achieving inner peace.

Bless everyone in your life today.

9 Tip of the Day

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"Who is living in your head today?"

Is it happiness, gratitude, appreciation and joy? Or is it anger, resentment, frustration and apathy? Your mind...