Searching for courtship: The smart woman's guide to finding a good husband - Softcover

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Dr. Winnifred Cutler, B.S. in Psychology cum laude from Ursinus College in 1973, earned her Ph.D. in Biology from the University of Pennsylvania in 1979 and did postdoctoral work in behavioral endocrinology at Stanford University. She has published over 30 scientific papers and is the author of six books on women's health translated into 7 languages. In 1986 she founded the Athena Institute for Women's Wellness as a biomedical research organization dedicated to the improvment of the healthcare for women

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WHY COURTSHIP WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE: The search for courtship is a definite, positive act. Courtship is not a random activity that just happens. Once you decide that your are going to take action to reach for what you want, you first need to prepare yourself. Then you set out on the journey. Like all journeys, the search for courtship will take you to new places, places you may never have been before.

It is important to recognize that people can and, in certain circumstances, do change. I think a leopard can change its spots. A man who learns what you require may be able to rise to your challenge. Consider men you have known who treated some women badly and others well.

Don't buy into the idea that "what you see is what you get". Think of the homely seed that can bloom into a lovely plant with proper tending and nurturing. What you see is the raw material before love has been added - if the candidate before you is available.

You can change also, and you will surely need to if you want courtship and if you have not had it before in your experiences with intimacy. You may have to change your attitude, your way of seeing, your way of perceiving.