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Daniel L. Prechtel is a spiritual director, educator, church consultant, retreat leader, and priest in the Episcopal Church who draws on more than 30 years of experience in spiritual guidance. His previous book, Where Two or Three are Gathered: Spiritual Direction for Small Groups, has been widely received for its contributions to the field of spirituality and spiritual guidance. He is founder of Lamb & Lion Spiritual Guidance Ministries and teaches at the Center for Anglican Learning and Leadership (CALL) at Church Divinity School of the Pacific in Berkeley, California, and at The Chaplaincy Institute.

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Where Two or Three ARE GATHERED

Morehouse Publishing

Contents

Chapter One

The Importance of Small Groups

Small groups provide a powerful support for and influence on people. We are not made, as the Genesis creation story says, to be alone. We are hard-wired for community. Consider the popular television shows that mirrored our desire for support, belonging, and a safe place to reflect on our lives and interact with intimacy. Cheers, a show that ran from 1982 to 1993, is set in the local tavern, the place "where everybody knows your name." Friends (1994–2004) picked up a new generation of television viewers with a similar theme and song assuring viewers, "I'll be there for you." These shows were enormously popular because they tapped into our primary need for human community.

In November 1991 the Gallup Organization conducted a national survey of 1,021 people who were members of small groups and 962 who were not members. The findings, summarized in Robert Wuthnow's book "I Come Away Stronger": How Small Groups Are Shaping American Religion, speak to how important small groups are for many people in the United States:

* Over half of American adults are now (40 percent) or have been (15 percent) involved in a small group.

* Nearly one-fourth of those not currently involved in a small group would like to join one.

* Nearly six of ten small-group members are part of a church- or synagogue- sponsored group.

* About six of ten say they joined a group because someone they knew invited them.

* A high level of importance and satisfaction is expressed for small groups among the vast majority of members.

* The vast majority of members see small groups as a source of community and personal support.

Those who were members of church-based small groups reported:

* Ninety-seven percent of people in church-based groups say they need to be "part of a group that helps you grow spiritually." Sixty-four percent say this need has been fully met.

* Eighty-four percent say that their faith or spirituality has been influenced from involvement in the group.

* Eighty-six percent say they have "sensed God's presence in the group."

* Ninety percent feel closer to God (33 percent in non-church group [n-c]).

* Eighty-seven percent have a deeper love toward other people (55 percent n-c).

* Eighty-five percent have a better ability to forgive others (53 percent n-c).

* Eighty-two percent have a better ability to forgive themselves (52 percent n-c).

* Eighty-five percent say the Bible has become more meaningful (21 percent n-c).

* Seventy-five percent experienced answers to prayers (25 percent n-c).

* Seventy-five percent feel it helped in "sharing your faith with others outside the group."

Group members also reported other significant benefits:

* Fifty-three percent experienced "healings of relationships."

* Eighty percent worked with the group to help someone inside the group who was in need (65 percent n-c).

* Seventy-two percent worked with the group to help other people in need outside the group (57 percent n-c).

* Sixty-one percent state they have "become more interested in peace or social justice" (51 percent n-c).

* Forty-two percent have "become involved in volunteer work in your community" (44 percent n-c).

* Eighty-seven percent have "experienced feeling better about yourself."

* Eighty-four percent say they are "more honest and open about yourself" (70 percent n-c).

* Eighty-three percent say they have "more open and honest communication with other people."

Wuthnow drew the following conclusions from this study:

In sum, the small-group movement has been successful in attracting a relatively large segment of the American public into its ranks. Its members attend meetings frequently and over long periods of time. Most who have ever been involved are still involved. Current members express high levels of satisfaction with their groups. They feel cared for and supported. And they believe their groups function well.

He added this observation about church-based small groups: "What is [clear] from the survey is that church-based groups are an effective means of keeping church members active, and perhaps even of activating nominal members." These findings are consistent with an earlier survey by the Gallup Organization in 1988 commissioned by then-Presiding Bishop Edmond Browning and reported in the booklet The Spiritual Health of the Episcopal Church. The Gallup Organization suggested that development in the following areas would further improve the spiritual health of the church:

* Listening to people's remarkable religious experiences and spiritual journeys.

* Encouraging evangelism and invitation.

* Encouraging an exploration of new expressions of faith.

* Encouraging a deepened prayer life.

* Encouraging study of the Bible.

Then the research organization recommended a focus on small-group development: "Perhaps the best vehicle for carrying out the steps described—and for changing church life from the merely functional to the transformational—are small groups—groups that meet for Bible study, prayer, or special ministries."

Small groups can meet the need to:

1. Become open and vulnerable to each other, to become healed.

2. Deepen one's prayer life.

3. Study Scriptures and to bring the Bible into one's daily life in a meaningful way.

4. Test one's faith and to gain insight into such basic questions as: What is my relationship to God? Who is Jesus Christ and what does he mean to me?

5. Learn how to share one's faith with others in the group.

6. Become equipped to reach out to others outside the group and share one's faith.

7. Become empowered for social service and outreach.

In more recent times writers and consultants on churches and church growth have emphasized the need for small groups. Diana Butler Bass has written of how small groups can help churches "re-tradition" ancient Christian practices for contemporary times. Congregational development consultant Kennon Callahan makes small groups one of his twelve keys for church growth. And the Natural Church Development model makes "holistic small groups" a key part of its platforms for development. Given such an emphasis on small groups in churches by so many, it is important that we take a look at the different kinds of small groups and the location of spiritual companionship groups within that range.

Varieties of Small Groups

Willow Creek, a megachurch that sees itself as a church of small groups, provides the following ways of classifying groups:

Age/Stage Based—children, youth, singles, couples, families, men, women, etc.

Need Based—pastoral care and a community of support for people experiencing health or economic crisis, grief recovery, divorce, recovering from addictions, etc.

Task Based—service groups focused on meeting needs within the church (ushers, building and grounds, altar guild, vestry, choir, etc.) or in outreach responding to the needs in the world (food pantry, Heifer Project, Habitat for Humanity, etc.).

Interest Based—shared interest (Bible study, prayer, or other spiritual...