Reading for Our Lives: The Urgency of Early Literacy and the Action Plan to Help Your Child - Softcover

Smart, Maya Payne

 
9780593544426: Reading for Our Lives: The Urgency of Early Literacy and the Action Plan to Help Your Child

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Completely revised and updated! Now in paperback. An award-winning journalist and literacy advocate provides a clear, step-by-step guide to helping your child thrive as a reader and a learner

Today’s children face intense pressure to meet rising academic standards and prepare for future careers, but most fall dangerously short. Early struggles with language and literacy often snowball into lasting disadvantages. Millions of U.S. kids don’t learn to read well in elementary school, driving low adult literacy rates and threatening the nation’s economic productivity, public health, and social equity.

In Reading for Our Lives, journalist Maya Payne Smart shows that the literacy crisis starts at home. Too many parents expect schools to unlock their child’s reading potential, unaware that even the best classroom instruction (which most don’t get) can’t make up for weak early preparation or inconsistent support outside of school.

Smart breaks down the latest research to show parents how to do their part to build essential literacy skills. She busts the myth that bedtime stories are parents’ greatest contribution to kids’ reading development. She advocates instead for weaving a range of simple, fun, free literacy habits and activities into everyday family life—and shows you how to do it.

With optimism and evidence, Reading for Our Lives delivers a clear call to action and a path forward for families, schools, and communities to beat the literacy crisis together.

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Beyond Bedtime Stories: The Truth About Getting Kids Ready to Read

Keep in mind always the present you are constructing. It should be the future you want.-Alice Walker

A mom friend and I had been having a forgettable chat in a picturesque little café when I brought it up-a subject that made her visibly tense.

I'd known her as an unflappable, high-powered management consultant turned tech executive. She was a visionary, always spoiling for a challenge worthy of her considerable skills and talents. Thoughtful and strategic, she brought a commanding yet optimistic presence to meetings and made people want to rise to the heights of her ambitious proposals. But on that day, I struck a nerve with an offhand remark about how little parents know about teaching their kids to read-that is, how we're just told to read to them every day and wait for the magic to set in.

"I used to get so angry when I would hear that advice," she said. "I was working so hard when my kids were little. I didn't have an hour to read to them every night and I felt so bad about it." She recalled hoping at the time that enrolling the kids in "good schools" would make up for the deficit in reading to them. Still, she had carried guilt about it for years. Her kids were in high school by the time I met her, but the memory pained her. She may have given her kids her all, but in her mind, she'd come up short on that one measure, and she didn't let herself forget it.

I've been a part of countless conversations about raising readers, and these tend to get emotional. I've heard the heartfelt testimony of a woman who records incarcerated mothers reading picture books and then ships the books and recordings to their kids, so they can have some semblance of a bedtime ritual with Mom. I've heard from multilingual parents who fret about passing on their first language without undermining their child's progress in learning English. I've spoken with parents after they've just received the jarring news that their child has been diagnosed with dyslexia. They all grappled with intense worry and frustration that came from discovering their children had a need they didn't know how to meet. You can hear the edge of panic in their tones.

The café conversation stuck with me, though, because the angst this parent was feeling wasn't coming from an overtly vulnerable position. The family wasn't in crisis. Her kids had performed well in school and were on the cusp of launching into college. Theirs was an educational success story, judged by most standards but her own.

Around the same time, I spoke with another mom who said she had made time to read to her three sons at length every night for more than a decade. Yet she was just as tortured by her decision to go all in on bedtime stories as the mom who hadn't. The second mom had clung to the nighttime ritual like a badge of honor, but her middle son still struggled with reading. He lacked the skill and motivation to read well for himself and had recently bombed his state achievement test.

"But I read to him every night," she told me, expressing her sense that she'd been cheated out of an expected return. She was angry that she'd have to pay a tutor to teach what he'd missed, that she hadn't acted earlier on signs that he needed more support, that what worked for one child didn't work for all. "I noticed he read like a robot, but thought it just takes some kids longer."

How could it be that moms at both ends of the spectrum-one who had read every night and one who hadn't-both described nearly identical feelings of inadequacy, uncertainty, and disappointment? The answer, I came to understand, was in the singular focus on bedtime reading. Both clung to the particular raise-a-reader tactic as the measure of their influence. And both suffered for it. That's because our loud cultural push for daily reading aloud, devoid of proper context, has a way of both shaming those who can't instill the habit and giving a false sense of security to those who can.

Both moms had fixated on a storytime-to-success message that resounds in the press, libraries, schools, and parenting programs. The well-intended advice is everywhere, but its delivery tends to raise more questions than it answers. Like most fairy tales, this particular story is well-worn, fractured with each retelling, and prone to magical leaps. It skips over crucial detail about the long, winding roads to reading. Day-to-day life with little kids exposes the missing plot points: How do you make family reading a habit? And if you do, does the ritual really bring about the host of benefits it's been praised for? What else is required of parents to get the job done?

A news website warns, "Children who were read five books a day starting at birth were exposed to 1.4 million more words than kids who aren't read to . . . and this reading gap may have a profound impact on a child's future literacy and vocabulary." Real-world parents wonder how short those five books may be, and how fast those parents read.

A grocery store's book drive reminds shoppers that "the single most significant factor influencing a child's early educational success is an introduction to books and being read to at home prior to beginning school." The pressure's on, and shoppers with toddlers in tow worry about what exactly qualifies as "an introduction" and how far before kindergarten we're talking.

An author declares, "The rewards of early reading are astonishingly meaningful: toddlers who have lots of stories read to them turn into children who are more likely to enjoy strong relationships, sharper focus, and greater emotional resilience and self-mastery. The evidence has become so overwhelming that social scientists now consider read-aloud time one of the most important indicators of a child's prospects in life." Our antennas go up. Bedtime stories do all that?

We get the message: Reading aloud is a multivitamin for kids and a proxy for good parenting, too. If you do it each night, you can build their brains and inspire a lifetime of literary delight, family bonding, and accomplishment.

Of course, there's more to the story. Reading aloud, though valuable, isn't everything. It's time to move beyond fairy tales and to root your own reading story in reality.

The Top Six Parent Levers for Literacy

When it comes to getting kids off to a strong start, parents are in the driver's seat, but it's like one of those dual-control driving-school cars with two steering wheels, accelerators, and brakes-one for the student and one for the instructor. Even babies who haven't spoken a word are actively learning and growing. You're not pouring information into an empty vessel. You're responding to your child's gaze, gestures, vocalizations, and (eventually) words, and stimulating more.

A time will come when you hand over the keys, take a back seat, or exit the car altogether. But initially you're in it together, and you've got a great deal of learning to do yourself about how to encourage, teach, and advocate for your child. You know how to read, but you've still got to learn how to explain how all the buttons and levers work so you can help your child use them, too. You've also got to keep scanning the horizon to see how their current language environment and experiences will impact their future success-insights that are possible thanks to advances in experimental studies, brain imaging, and more. With this vision in place, you'll be better equipped to nurture their literacy, years before they can be expected to distinguish letters or sounds, let alone read words or paragraphs.

As pediatric surgeon and early-language advocate Dana Suskind writes, "Without a concerted look, we might actually believe that the problems we see in older children start at the...

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