Opting Back In: What Really Happens When Mothers Go Back to Work - Hardcover

Stone, Pamela; Lovejoy, Meg

 
9780520290808: Opting Back In: What Really Happens When Mothers Go Back to Work

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Taking a career break is a conflicted and risky decision for high-achieving professional women. Yet many do so, usually planning, even as they quit, to return to work eventually. But can they? And if so, how? In Opting Back In, Pamela Stone and Meg Lovejoy revisit women first interviewed a decade earlier in Stone’s book Opting Out? Why Women Really Quit Careers and Head Home to answer these questions. In frank and intimate accounts, women lay bare the dilemmas they face upon reentry. Most succeed but not by returning to their former high-paying, still family-inhospitable jobs. Instead, women strike out in new directions, finding personally gratifying but lower-paid jobs in the gig economy or predominantly female nonprofit sector. Opting Back In uncovers a paradox of privilege by which the very women best positioned to achieve leadership and close gender gaps use strategies to resume their careers that inadvertently reinforce gender inequality. The authors advocate gender equitable policies that will allow women—and all parents—to combine the intense demands of work and family life in the twenty-first century.
 

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Pamela Stone is Professor of Sociology at Hunter College and The Graduate Center, City University of New York. She is the author of Opting Out?: Why Women Really Quit Careers and Head Home.

Meg Lovejoy, PhD, is a sociologist and Research Program Director for the Workplace and Well-being Initiative at the Harvard Center for Population and Development. Lovejoy was a lead researcher for Opting Out?: Why Women Really Quit Careers and Head Home.

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"At yet another moment when the best and brightest are needed in our fast-changing workforce, Pamela Stone and Meg Lovejoy offer a valuable take on what one of America's greatest resources'the smart, talented women who opted out of their careers to raise children'face when they return and the consequences for all women seeking to strike a work/life balance.' 'Judy Woodruff, anchor and managing editor of PBS NewsHour
 
'A book we badly need. Stone and Lovejoy probe the lives of the very women who could and should be earning the same high salaries and leading the same companies and law firms as their male counterparts but are not. They demonstrate where and how the pipeline of female talent leaks, while also identifying paradoxes of privilege that reinforce existing power structures. It should be required reading at professional schools across the country.' 'Anne-Marie Slaughter, CEO, New America
 
'A crucial book on a crucial subject. Building on their earlier influential study of high-achieving women who leave the workforce, Stone and Lovejoy trace the consequences of those decisions a decade later. Through these women's stories, Opting Back In offers a compelling and engaging account of how women can reinvent their careers, the challenges they face, and the policy reforms necessary to take advantage of their talent.''Deborah L. Rhode, E.W. McFarland Professor of Law and Director of the Program on Social Entrepreneurship, Stanford University


'How do professional women 'opt back in' after being out of the workforce to raise children? This fascinating and highly readable book provides a rare follow-up. The women's experiences reveal how, with inflexible workplaces, women's re-entry often emerged through re-invention. Opting Back In offers a thoughtful and engaging analysis of the power of gender today." 'Annette Lareau, author of Unequal Childhoods
 
'stone and Lovejoy show clearly how women's cheerful language of reinvention veils status anxiety for children's future in an age of increasing income inequality and disillusion with the often family-hostile and sexist atmosphere in high-stakes, high-status jobs.' 'Joan Williams, Professor of Law and Director of the Center for WorkLife Law, University of California Hastings College of Law
 
'stone and Lovejoy have done it again'improved our understanding of what many interpret as women's choices, in earlier work, to leave well-compensated professions to take care of family, and, in this book, to return after reinventing themselves, but often in less intense jobs in other fields. Jargon free and highly readable, Opting Back In shows that women's choices are far from freely chosen but are structured by the lack of flexibility in long-hour, high-level jobs. The authors tell us how patriarchy and capitalism operate in the upper strata in the early 21st century and what we can do about it to bring about real change for everyone.''Heidi Hartmann, President and CEO, Institute for Women's Policy Research
 
'this book provides keen insights on challenges professional women face as they exit and later attempt to reestablish careers. Founded on rich data and crisply written, it is a must-read for anyone interested in work-family concerns.' 'stephen Sweet, Executive Officer, Work and Family Researchers Network
 
'too often, discussion about the lack of women in leadership relies on inaccurate assumptions about why, when, and how high-achieving women pause or ratchet back their careers. Opting Back In offers a much-needed corrective to oversimplified narratives that obscure how the gendered expectations within organizations and families together restrict women's paths as they attempt to restart their careers and reactivate their identity as professionals. Perhaps most importantly, Stone and Lovejoy show that, far from being relevant only to a rarefied segment of the population, the trajectories of women who have left and returned to white-collar jobs can help us all better understand the nature of gender inequality and how it might be more effectively challenged.' 'Robin Ely, Harvard Business School
 
'Demonstrates how the personal decisions of a group of elite women reverberate throughout our social world and become consequential both for those equally privileged and for those with far fewer advantages. Beautifully written and impeccably organized.' 'margaret K. Nelson, coauthor of Random Families
 
'Vividly captures the dilemma facing professional women wrestling with family obligations. Sympathetic and incisive, this book is a must-read for anyone who wants to understand the personal and public toll America's lack of family policy enacts even on the advantaged.' 'sharon Sassler, coauthor of Cohabitation Nation

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&;At yet another moment when the best and brightest are needed in our fast-changing workforce, Pamela Stone and Meg Lovejoy offer a valuable take on what one of America&;s greatest resources&;the smart, talented women who opted out of their careers to raise children&;face when they return and the consequences for all women seeking to strike a work/life balance.&; &;Judy Woodruff, anchor and managing editor of PBS NewsHour
 
&;A book we badly need. Stone and Lovejoy probe the lives of the very women who could and should be earning the same high salaries and leading the same companies and law firms as their male counterparts but are not. They demonstrate where and how the pipeline of female talent leaks, while also identifying paradoxes of privilege that reinforce existing power structures. It should be required reading at professional schools across the country.&; &;Anne-Marie Slaughter, CEO, New America
 
&;A crucial book on a crucial subject. Building on their earlier influential study of high-achieving women who leave the workforce, Stone and Lovejoy trace the consequences of those decisions a decade later. Through these women&;s stories, Opting Back In offers a compelling and engaging account of how women can reinvent their careers, the challenges they face, and the policy reforms necessary to take advantage of their talent.&;&;Deborah L. Rhode, E.W. McFarland Professor of Law and Director of the Program on Social Entrepreneurship, Stanford University


&;How do professional women &;opt back in&; after being out of the workforce to raise children? This fascinating and highly readable book provides a rare follow-up. The women&;s experiences reveal how, with inflexible workplaces, women&;s re-entry often emerged through re-invention. Opting Back In offers a thoughtful and engaging analysis of the power of gender today." &;Annette Lareau, author of Unequal Childhoods
 
&;Stone and Lovejoy show clearly how women&;s cheerful language of reinvention veils status anxiety for children&;s future in an age of increasing income inequality and disillusion with the often family-hostile and sexist atmosphere in high-stakes, high-status jobs.&; &;Joan Williams, Professor of Law and Director of the Center for WorkLife Law, University of California Hastings College of Law
 
&;Stone and Lovejoy have done it again&;improved our understanding of what many interpret as women&;s choices, in earlier work, to leave well-compensated professions to take care of family, and, in this book, to return after reinventing themselves, but often in less intense jobs in other fields. Jargon free and highly readable, Opting Back In shows that women&;s choices are far from freely chosen but are structured by the lack of flexibility in long-hour, high-level jobs. The authors tell us how patriarchy and capitalism operate in the upper strata in the early 21st century and what we can do about it to bring about real change for everyone.&;&;Heidi Hartmann, President and CEO, Institute for Women's Policy Research
 
&;This book provides keen insights on challenges professional women face as they exit and later attempt to reestablish careers. Founded on rich data and crisply written, it is a must-read for anyone interested in work-family concerns.&; &;Stephen Sweet, Executive Officer, Work and Family Researchers Network
 
&;Too often, discussion about the lack of women in leadership relies on inaccurate assumptions about why, when, and how high-achieving women pause or ratchet back their careers. Opting Back In offers a much-needed corrective to oversimplified narratives that obscure how the gendered expectations within organizations and families together restrict women&;s paths as they attempt to restart their careers and reactivate their identity as professionals. Perhaps most importantly, Stone and Lovejoy show that, far from being relevant only to a rarefied segment of the population, the trajectories of women who have left and returned to white-collar jobs can help us all better understand the nature of gender inequality and how it might be more effectively challenged.&; &;Robin Ely, Harvard Business School
 
&;Demonstrates how the personal decisions of a group of elite women reverberate throughout our social world and become consequential both for those equally privileged and for those with far fewer advantages. Beautifully written and impeccably organized.&; &;Margaret K. Nelson, coauthor of Random Families
 
&;Vividly captures the dilemma facing professional women wrestling with family obligations. Sympathetic and incisive, this book is a must-read for anyone who wants to understand the personal and public toll America&;s lack of family policy enacts even on the advantaged.&; &;Sharon Sassler, coauthor of Cohabitation Nation

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Opting Back In

What Really Happens When Mothers Go Back to Work

By Pamela Stone, Meg Lovejoy

UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA PRESS

Copyright © 2019 The Regents of the University of California
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-0-520-29080-8

Contents

List of Illustrations,
Acknowledgments,
Introduction,
1. Great Expectations,
2. The Siren Call of Privileged Domesticity,
3. Putting Family First: The Slow Return,
4. Career Relaunch: Heeding the Call,
5. Questing and Reinvention,
6. The Big Picture,
7. The Paradox of Privilege and Beyond,
Appendix. Study Methodology,
Notes,
References,
Index,


CHAPTER 1

Great Expectations


EXEMPLARY LIVES

The Marketing Executive

Kate Hadley, thirty-nine and the mother of three when we first interviewed her nine years earlier, had been a coxswain. Not just a coxswain, but captain of the women's crew team and the first woman to be elected president of her Ivy League university's rowing club, which included the men's and women's teams. "The coxswain," she told me, "is the person who literally sits in the boat and bosses people around and gives commands, calls strategy, motivates them." Perhaps thinking that she was sounding a little boastful, Kate self-deprecatingly added that she was "the unathletic one." The coxswain is the brain, not the brawn of the team — the strategist: "You're smart, you can think on your feet, and you don't weigh too much because they're pulling you, you're dead weight." As dead weight, Kate explained, coxswains were not regarded as captain material, and she seemed prouder of having been elected captain as a coxswain than club president as a woman. Both were unprecedented achievements.

As we talked in the family room of her suburban Chicago home at that first interview, it was easy to envision Kate as a collegiate athlete. Tanned and trim, wearing a T-shirt, cotton skirt, and fashionable but functional sandals, she was articulate and reflective as she talked about her life growing up, a life she recognized was privileged and accomplished. The daughter of an international businessman, Kate described her mother as "a classic example of a corporate wife." Kate was accepted early decision and graduated from her Ivy League college in the late 1980s. With the benefit of several summer internships, she established herself quickly at a leading research and consulting firm. After about two years there, she was expected to get her MBA, but Kate was not yet ready for that. Instead, she launched a job search in Europe, landing a marketing job with a major brand-name company. Two years into this job, Kate felt the time was right for the MBA, "because I wouldn't want to be turned down for a job ever because I didn't have it and someone else did." Accepted by several leading schools, she decided to attend her father's alma mater, Wharton, one of the premier business schools in the country.

After earning her MBA, Kate switched firms, taking a job at another major consumer brands company that offered her the possibility of returning home to the US. Clearly identified as a high flyer, Kate moved steadily upward, at one point easily sidestepping a transfer to another part of the country in order to stay at headquarters and closer to Nick, her soon-to-be husband, and quickly becoming the marketing manager of the company's leading brand — the "mother brand," as she called it in her marketing lingo. When she was newly married and wanted to move to Latin America in order to pursue a career opportunity for her husband, Kate was able to leverage her expertise and transfer laterally overseas, ultimately getting a promotion to marketing director just before having her first baby.

Kate continued to work after her baby was born but cut back to 80 percent time, reasoning that this "would be a good way to still be in the game and in the fast track and keep up my networks and reputation, but that it would also afford me a slice of normality or a little bit of balance." While her boss granted this request, she noted that he found it "astonishing." Given the long distances entailed in traveling in Latin America, Kate estimated that she was on the road two to three weeks a month. Despite the grueling schedule, Kate had a second child eighteen months after the first. Passed over for a promotion in favor of someone junior to her, Kate "suspected it had something to do with me having my second baby and they thought I wanted to go slower and blah, blah, blah." Shortly thereafter, prompted by her husband's decision to return to the States for his career, the family moved back. Failing to line up a new job, and with family pressures mounting, including a third pregnancy, Kate quit. Looking back on her decision, she took satisfaction from how long she had been able to juggle career and family, musing, "I probably in some ways lasted longer than maybe some people thought I would in terms of working until my second child was one."

At our first interview, Kate had been home for three years. During that time, she'd been surprised and flattered to find that she was receiving offers to consult — offers she turned down, "distracted" by everything going on at home with three children and two dogs, plus a husband who'd taken on a demanding new job with constant international travel. As the crew coxswain, Kate had been the only person in the boat looking forward, but doing so now filled her with uncertainty. Back then, as Kate thought about her future, she wasn't sure she wanted to return to work "so I can become vice president of marketing by the time I'm fifty" — an aspiration in keeping with her elite MBA pedigree. Rather, Kate sought meaningful engagement, "to set a good example for my daughters." Still, she wanted to return to the corporate world, which she liked (unlike many others) because "there's a lot of security" and recognition, "where people knew the name of the company." She struggled, however, with a "lack of confidence because I've been out so long [only three years]." And she worried that a corporate job wouldn't give her the flexibility she needed, noting that she'd been reading about "just how tough it is for corporations to be flexible." Kate planned to return at some point, emphatically declaring, "I don't consider myself part of the opt-out revolution." When and how she'd return were open questions; Kate felt pressures to return soon but "hadn't done anything on it." This uncharacteristic indecision was "a sign," she thought, that she wasn't ready.


The CPA

The daughter of a police officer and a mother who had "never worked," Diane Childs was forty-one and the mother of two children when we first talked with her eleven years before. She was slender with short-cropped brown hair and a crisp, no-nonsense demeanor that was reflected in the immaculate uncluttered setting of her living room, where we shared a cup of tea. Diane had grown up in the big northeastern city where she still lived, and had stayed close to home for college, choosing a local university that was affordable and accessible, and a major (accounting) that was practical. She "mulled around in liberal arts for maybe a year or so" before going into the business program, a move prompted by the realization that "I'm going to have to find a job when I get out, pay off school loans, things like that." Graduating in the early 1980s, a time, she recalled, when "there was a big push for women," Diane jumped at the opportunities opening up in her field. Recruited right out of college, she went to...

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