Discover the infinite within you...and claim the unlimited gifts of the soul
Intangible, invisible, mysterious, the soul is our connection with something greater than our physical being. Yet, as we focus on career or relationships, we often forget to look within.
The Portable Pilgrim can help, guiding you on your own personal voyage of discovery. Noted psychotherapist Dr. Susanna McMahon has used the wisdom of Eastern and Western religions, the works of great philosophers, and experiences drawn from her clinical practice to create an exhilarating road map to personal transformation.
Her seven simple but exquisitely profound lessons show us how to explore the territory of the soul. One easy step at a time, we begin to discover an immense force of love and goodness within each of us. The result is a miraculous connection to the infinite and an existence that is deeply meaningful and without end.
Discover:
A path to the soul without religious bias
Seven lessons to work through at your own pace
A "teaching story" at the end of each lesson
Practical exercises that let you see the soul at work in your daily life
Positive moral growth you can see and feel
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Dr. Susanna McMahon is the author of The Portable Therapist; The Portable Problem Solver: Having Healthy Relationships; and The Portable Problem Solver: Coping with Life's Stressors. Educated at the University of Houston, she has worked for the federal government in Texas and in Germany, and was director of the Community Mental Health Program in Madrid. She currently lives in Houston with her husband, J. Timothy McMahon, a management professor and consultant. Her life is enriched by three adult daughters and three Spanish cats.
infinite within you...and claim the unlimited gifts of the soul
Intangible, invisible, mysterious, the soul is our connection with something greater than our physical being. Yet, as we focus on career or relationships, we often forget to look within.
The Portable Pilgrim can help, guiding you on your own personal voyage of discovery. Noted psychotherapist Dr. Susanna McMahon has used the wisdom of Eastern and Western religions, the works of great philosophers, and experiences drawn from her clinical practice to create an exhilarating road map to personal transformation.
Her seven simple but exquisitely profound lessons show us how to explore the territory of the soul. One easy step at a time, we begin to discover an immense force of love and goodness within each of us. The result is a miraculous connection to the infinite and an existence that is deeply meaning
INTRODUCTION
A pilgrim is a traveler to a shrine or holy place or, even more simply, a wanderer. A pilgrimage is the journey made by a pilgrim or any long journey. If we think of ourselves as wanderers and our lives as long journeys, then by the simplest definitions, we are all pilgrims and our lives are pilgrimages. And when we begin the search for meaning in our lives, when we seek awareness of that which is good, important, and real, when we quest for the sacred--something grander than ourselves--then we truly become the more traditional definition of a pilgrim. Our journey toward meaning becomes our own personal voyage of discovery, the pilgrimage to our souls.
Nowadays very few of us, unless we are Muslims, think of actually going on a pilgrimage, but this was not always so. During the Middle Ages, and lasting for several centuries, more than half a million travelers each year went on holy treks. Christians had three possible places to journey: Rome, Jerusalem, and Santiago de Compostela in northern Spain. Rome was where Peter founded the Catholic Church, and those who traveled there were known as romeros. Jerusalem was where Christ was crucified and arose from the dead; these travelers were called palmers because they returned with palm branches. Only those who traveled to Santiago de Compostela, the shrine of St. James, defeater of the Moors and patron saint of Spain, could be called pilgrims, for this was by far the most hazardous and lengthy journey of the three.
Pilgrims undertook this challenging and dangerous trek for many reasons, the most common being to seek the spiritual or to find salvation. Warriors and knights often vowed to make a pilgrimage if they survived in battle. Clergy saw the pilgrimage as the ultimate quest for the Divine, the culmination of their holy lives. But there were also criminals, sentenced to either jail or pilgrimage, and there were always the thieves, beggars, and unsavory characters who went for financial gain and preyed on the devout as they traveled along. Also, there were merchants, architects, weavers, painters, and all manner of businessmen who perceived the journey as a marketplace. Finally, there were foreign agents and political spies. The composition of these early pilgrimages readily lends itself to comparison with modern life.
In the midst of those who are seeking the holy are always those who desire the profane; as a matter of fact, we are often personally caught in the battle between what we desire (our mortal dreams) and what we seek (our immortal souls). We are constantly being seduced and distracted by worldly desires, wealth, and comfort. We are trained to believe that happiness comes with pleasure, that security and safety come with money and possessions, and that there should be an easy, painless fix for all our problems and difficulties. We quickly become afraid of taking what we perceive as a painful path; we do not want our lives ever to be hard or unknown or unsure. Thus, we learn to view happiness as our right, status as our reward, and comfort as our due. Then, when we do achieve these desires, we are surprised that we still wonder what is missing. Where have we failed? Why do we want more, and what exactly is it that we are yearning for?
This is precisely the place to begin the pilgrimage. It is only when we find what we seek, when we achieve what we think we desire, that we become free to discover that there is more to us, more to life than what we have been taught. For it is when we have supposedly achieved "success" that we discover that what we have is not what we want and we must look farther afield. In short, we must journey to new territory. It is as if we have always traveled to our destination via a certain road and now this road is torn up and impassable. We don't know where to go, and we're no longer sure that we even want to go anymore. And this revelation is both frightening and frustrating, for it is not what we have been led to expect.
And it is now, in this state of confusion, that the soul has a chance to assert itself over the controlling ego and the noisy mind. The soul needs a quiet space in order to be heard; nothing stops the incessant chatter of the mind and the constant demands of the ego as surely as not knowing and being uncertain. Think of the ego as a hot-air balloon and of confusion as the pin that bursts the balloon. However, because we are familiar with the world of the ego and not at all comfortable with the soul's reality, we can easily become afraid and depressed in this new place, unless we understand the process. For we have spent years making sense of the physical world, we have listened to our minds, we have developed our egos to define us, we have fed, clothed, and exercised our bodies, and all the while we have ignored our souls. It seems to have taken all our time just to attend to the business of living in the world that we know, see, smell, and hear; how, then, can we have been expected to deal with something as mysterious and ambiguous as the soul?
What do we know of the soul? We have heard that it is our immortal essence, our spiritual force and moral nature, our vital and essential beingness, our connection to God. We know that it cannot be seen because it has no physical or material presence. It cannot be counted, weighed, measured, or replicated, so from a scientific point of view, it is easy to dismiss or ignore. If we have been curious about it, we may have read recent books that describe it as the part of ourselves that knows everything but desires a physical existence in order to experience that which is known but not yet felt. And that it contains the best of us and also our shadow or dark sides. We may have heard that the soul is the true driving force behind who we are, what we do, think, say, and feel and that it organizes all our experiences into our meanings. Yet we may be left wondering exactly how to tap into it, communicate with it, and allow it to guide us actively.
Discovering the soul is like learning to play bridge. The only way to learn is to play, even though in the beginning you have no earthly idea what you are doing or why you are doing it. The rules of the game simply do not make sense until you have played for a while. Therefore, you must begin without understanding, but with the faith that one day it will all make sense. If you keep at it, one day everything falls into place and forms a cohesive and connected pattern of meaning. Thus, you have taken the risk to do something that makes no sense and to keep at it until it does. Your reward is that you become a bridge player; what was once so unclear and unfamiliar now seems natural, easy, and great fun.
Discovering the soul can also be compared with falling in love. You simply cannot imagine the experience until it has happened to you. You can hear about it and see it in others, but it is not a rational event that can be communicated or taught by normal teaching methods. The only way to understand the phenomenon is to experience it for yourself. This involves the element of risk, for falling in love means giving up your control, your illusions of safety, and your need for rational behavior. It means that your emotions override your usually dominant and powerful mind. You simply cannot think yourself into love; the only way to get there is to feel.
So it is with the soul. In order to discover your soul, you must allow it to override your rational mind and your insecure ego. Both are working hard to allow you some illusion of security, to order the world, to organize the chaos, and to give you definite boundaries by which you define yourself. They help you know exactly where you begin and end so that you can differentiate yourself as a unique and important individual in this confusing world. In doing so, they separate you from everything that is not you. And it is in this separation that your difficulties occur.
Separation is not the domain of the soul, for the soul is the connection to the Life Force, the Higher Power, God. It is also your connection to all living things. For in order to recognize your soul, you must simultaneously recognize the soul in others. Becoming aware of your goodness (soulfulness) is intimately connected to the awareness of the innate goodness in all being. Therefore, the pilgrimage to your own soul is the journey toward virtue, the awareness that goodness--God--exists in all things. It is the understanding that there is both mystery and revelation in every moment. It involves beginning without comprehension (similar to playing bridge) and experiencing without understanding (like falling in love).
Ultimately this is indeed a spiritual trip even if you have difficulty with the religious concepts of God, spirit, and soul. You do not have to believe in G...
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