Secrets You Keep from Yourself: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Happiness

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"A step-by-step plan in which [the reader] can deprogram himself from the ingrained and harmful habits taught by unhealthy guardians...and change habitual feelings of low self-esteem, distrust, or even a willingness to be victimized." --Los Angeles Times on If You Had Controlling Parents

"Excels in describing threads common to many extreme parenting styles...and to the way children subjected to them feel once they've grown up." --Dallas Morning News on If You Had Controlling Parents

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